Sometimes I feel like finding a solution to this fertility mess is a full time job. I'm fine with that. If I'm not actively working on a solution then I feel helpless and sad. So right now I am in work mode and I am going to figure something out one way or the other.
Oh and can I add the the list, the list of things I suggest not saying to a couple dealing with infertility.
- Oh, you just need to relax and then it will happen. (Don't say that because in my case all the relaxing in the world won't increase my egg count and it just makes me CRAZY when I hear that. Also, don't get my hopes up.)
- Now, that you've adopted you'll get pregnant for sure. (First of all, I believe that when people get pregnant after they adopt it is because that adopted baby was supposed to go to that family and maybe wouldn't have if things had worked out differently. Second of all, one may say that to a person who is totally infertile and then it just sounds extra insensitive.)